Carolyn Stoloff, PhD

Carolyn was my therapist many years ago when i was a very young woman in a lot of pain. She was nothing but controlling and manipulative, talking endlessly about herself: how she wasn't over her ex-boyfriend Basil, how she was miserable in her marriage, how she was a perfect student and dated all her professors, how she used to plan so many cute outfits, all the while insulting my clothes for being raggedy, and that 'i still wasn't losing any weight.' She talked about her friends abandoning her after she complained about their dirty bathroom. SHE EVEN CRIED ONCE DURING OUR SESSION. She offered 'to allow me to 'pay later' since I had no money but she used it against me endlessly - often stating 'since I'm working for free.' She made it impossible for me to set clear boundaries or even complain since i was in so much pain and literally had no one else (and owed her money) - and she insulted me with impunity. This was extremely harmful and I cringe to think of all the people she has hurt