Patricia De Pol, LFMT

To Whom It May Concern, It is with sincere gratitude and unwavering confidence that I write this letter of recommendation for Tricia DePol, a truly exceptional therapist who played a pivotal role in helping me reclaim my life during one of its darkest chapters. I first met Tricia in the aftermath of a painful divorce—a time when I was buried under a heaviness I could not bear. I had left my job, fallen behind on rent, and most days I couldn’t move from the couch. I felt completely untethered, disconnected not only from the world around me but from any sense of myself. Entering therapy with Tricia was a turning point I now consider one of the most important decisions of my life. From the very first session, Tricia created a space that felt safe, respectful, and deeply human. She met me exactly where I was—without judgment—and offered both compassionate presence and practical guidance. Her style is a rare blend of clinical expertise and grounded empathy. She has an uncanny ability to ask the right questions at the right time, gently but persistently guiding you toward truths that heal. Over the course of our work together—spanning nearly three years—I began to feel myself returning. Gradually, the fog began to lift. With Tricia’s help, I was able to confront the grief and shame I had long avoided. I found clarity. I learned to set small, meaningful goals and keep them. I reengaged with my body, paid attention to what I ate, how I moved, and how I spoke to myself. I found the will to begin again. Tricia never claimed to have all the answers—what she offered was something more powerful: the tools, space, and support to find them myself. Her care helped me rediscover my own agency. And for that, I will be forever grateful. If you are considering Tricia as a therapist, I cannot recommend her highly enough. Her presence in my life has been nothing short of transformational. She is, in every sense of the word, a healer. With respect, Tom R - South Orange NJ

If you’re looking to actually work on your relationship and are trying to save it, go to anyone other than this “therapist”